Or would it matter more whether or not they were just sleeping around? It doesn't make intimacy between the husband and wife less valuable, does it? Do men still prefer to marry virgins-even if they're not virgins themselves? Intimacy with the husband is broken if women sleep around too much.
I'm a woman and I don't want to marry non-virgin
Virgin Girl for Marriage?
I recently wrote an article here on Huffington Post Women entitled 10 Types of Men Who Won't Marry You and in response to it, I have gotten over 1, comments as well as endless emails asking me why I hadn't written a similar list of types of women. As a result, I have created such a list here, using the opinions that I have heard from tens of thousands of men during my years working as a matchmaker. The fact is, if you are a woman and you want to get married, you need to be smart about your dating. This means avoiding certain male types, but it also means recognizing what you are doing wrong in your dating and whether the type of woman you are putting out there to the male population attracts or repels them. To figure this out, you can start by considering the list below and whether you, at times, are any of these quite unattractive female types:.
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There is an abiding cultural script that says that men fantasize about virgins — specifically, being the man who "pops the cherry" of a beautiful, innocent young woman. It's everywhere from high-brow literature to men's magazines to blockbuster films to porn, and it has at its core the idea that virginity is a precious symbol of a woman's purity. Virginity for men is a whole different story, of course: you only need to think about films like The Year Old Virgin to understand that, for men, virginity is seen as an embarrassing state that guys should try to rid themselves of as soon as possible. Hence, we have a gendered and heteronormative conception of virginity: It's embarrassing for men to be virgins and they should try to have sex as soon as possible, but virginity is a prize for women and the longer a girl keeps her chaste state the more admirable she is. This sets up a kind of zero sum game where men try to "take" a woman's virginity and women try to withhold it from all but the most desirable of men and only once they've committed to her for life.